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The Black Suitcase
My mother had always been a cheerful, slightly overweight woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s how I\u2019d describe her if you asked. Round face. Soft arms. A laugh that came from somewhere deep in her stomach and filled up every room she walked into. She wore cardigans with pockets full of tissues and butterscotch candies. She smelled like vanilla extract and Jergens lotion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She loved baking. Cinnamon rolls every Saturday. Apple pie every Sunday. Banana bread whenever a banana got a single brown spot, because she couldn\u2019t stand to waste anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she never missed Sunday dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Never. Not once in my whole life. Not when my father had his heart attack in 2009. Not when she broke her wrist in 2016. Not during the pandemic, when we did it over FaceTime with her propping her iPad up against the gravy boat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Every Sunday at four o\u2019clock. Pot roast or roast chicken or meatloaf. Mashed potatoes. Green beans with bacon. Rolls from scratch. Pie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when she announced in October that she was spending a week with her childhood friend Margaret, I was happy for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I really was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret?\u201d I said. \u201cMargaret from Erie?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We were sitting at her kitchen table on a Sunday afternoon. After the pot roast. Before the pie. She was cutting the pie into eight perfect slices with the same knife she\u2019d used since 1971.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret Feeney,\u201d Mom said. \u201cWe grew up together. On Plum Street. We were best friends from first grade until\u2026\u201d She paused. The knife stopped. \u201cUntil we weren\u2019t. For a while. Then we were again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI remember her,\u201d I said. \u201cShe came to Dad\u2019s funeral, didn\u2019t she?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom set the knife down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNo,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cThat was her sister. Margaret couldn\u2019t make it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen\u2019s the last time you saw her?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom thought about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTwenty years,\u201d she said. \u201cMaybe a little more.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cAnd she just called you? Out of the blue?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom picked the knife back up. She started cutting again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSomething like that,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Margaret lived three hours away. In Erie, Pennsylvania. Up on the lake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom said she\u2019d take the train. Amtrak. The Lake Shore Limited. From Cleveland to Erie. It would take two and a half hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI can drive you, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnnie, you work. You have the kids. You have Dave. I\u2019m eighty, not dead. I can sit on a train.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cFor a whole week?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSeven days,\u201d Mom said. \u201cMonday to Monday. Margaret has a guest room. She said I can stay as long as I like.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe have a lot to catch up on,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My name is Annie Cole. I\u2019m fifty-four years old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019m a dental hygienist in Lakewood, Ohio. Just west of Cleveland. I\u2019ve been married to Dave for twenty-nine years. He manages a Home Depot. We have two kids. Tyler\u2019s twenty-six and lives in Columbus. Grace is twenty-two and just started nursing school at Kent State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother is June Abernathy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She lives alone in the little white Cape Cod on Hilliard Road in Rocky River where I grew up. Seven minutes from my house. My father, Bill, died in 2009. They were married forty-four years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s eighty years old. She drives to the grocery store. She volunteers at the library on Wednesdays. She goes to Mass at St. Christopher\u2019s every Saturday at five. She plays bridge on Thursdays with three women she\u2019s known for fifty years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s never been anywhere without telling me first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I drove her to the Amtrak station in downtown Cleveland on a Monday morning at five a.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She had one bag. A small blue travel bag. Hard-sided. With wheels. I bought it for her in 2018 when she went to visit my aunt in Florida. It had a little pink ribbon tied to the handle so she could find it on the baggage carousel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was wearing her good navy coat. And a cardigan underneath. Gray. Too big for her. I noticed that. I remember noticing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNew sweater?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOld one,\u201d she said. \u201cFrom the back of the closet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It hung on her. The shoulders were too wide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t think anything of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the station, she kissed my cheek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCall me when you get there,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI will.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd call me every night.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnnie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEvery night, Mom. I mean it. You\u2019re eighty.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ll call you every night,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She went through the door to the platform. Pulling her little blue bag with the pink ribbon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t look back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She called the first night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She sounded tired. She said the train was fine. She said Margaret\u2019s house was lovely. She said they\u2019d stayed up late talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat did you talk about?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOld times,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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She called the second night. Shorter. Tired again. She said they\u2019d gone for a walk by the lake. She said she was going to bed early.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She called the third night. Very short. Two minutes. She said she was fine. She said she loved me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t call the fourth night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I called her. It went to voicemail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I called again. Voicemail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I almost drove to Erie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then at eleven p.m., she texted. Sorry, sweetheart. Phone died. All fine. Love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom never texts. She hates texting. She says her thumbs are too old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t call the fifth night either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or the sixth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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She texted both nights. Short texts. Fine. Tired. Love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seven days later, I picked Mom up at the train station.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Monday afternoon. Four-ten p.m. The Lake Shore Limited, arriving from the east.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stood on the platform with a cup of hot chocolate for her. Her favorite. From the Starbucks in the station. Extra whipped cream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The train pulled in. People got off. Business travelers. College kids. An old man with a cane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I barely recognized her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I mean that. For about three full seconds, I looked right at her and didn\u2019t know who she was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A small old woman in a navy coat. Stepping carefully down from the train with one hand on the rail. Her clothes hung loosely from her shoulders. The coat that used to fit snug across her middle was hanging on her like a tent. Her gray cardigan underneath was swimming on her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Her cheeks were sunken. The round face I\u2019d known my whole life was gone. Her cheekbones stood out like I\u2019d never seen them. There were hollows under her eyes. Dark circles. Her skin looked gray.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her hands were bony. Her wrists were thin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019d lost so much weight. In seven days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she was dragging an enormous black suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I dropped the hot chocolate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It splattered on the platform. I didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I ran to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said. \u201cMom, what happened to you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked up at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She forced a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It didn\u2019t reach her eyes. Her eyes were red. Swollen. Like she\u2019d been crying for days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cJust a little stomach trouble, sweetheart,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cStomach trouble?\u201d I put my hands on her arms. I could feel the bones through her coat. \u201cMom, you\u2019ve lost twenty pounds. Thirty. You look sick. You look like you haven\u2019t eaten in a week.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI haven\u2019t been very hungry,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe\u2019re going to the hospital. Right now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She pulled her arm away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNo,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNo, Annie.\u201d Her voice was sharp. She never uses a sharp voice with me. \u201cI don\u2019t need a hospital. I need to go home.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou look like you\u2019re dying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m not dying,\u201d Mom said. \u201cPlease. Just take me home.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I noticed the suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Black. Huge. The kind of hard-shell suitcase that costs four hundred dollars at Macy\u2019s. With four spinner wheels and a telescoping handle and a brushed metal finish. Expensive. Nothing my mother would ever buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom had left home with a small blue travel bag. With a pink ribbon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said. \u201cWhere\u2019s your luggage?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She gripped the black handle. Tighter. Her knuckles went white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret gave me this one,\u201d she said. \u201cMine broke.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I drove her home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She sat in the passenger seat with the black suitcase in the back. She didn\u2019t say anything. She looked out the window at Lake Erie as we drove west on the Shoreway. Gray water. Gray sky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I kept glancing at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At her hands in her lap. Thin. Shaking a little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At her face. Gaunt. Older than I\u2019d ever seen it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said. \u201cDid something happen? At Margaret\u2019s?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m tired, Annie,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019ll tell you later. I promise. Not now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At home, Mom carried the suitcase straight into her bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She didn\u2019t let me help. She dragged it up the front steps by herself. Through the living room. Down the hall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Into her bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she locked the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother has never locked a door in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not the bathroom. Not the front door, most nights. I yell at her about it. She says she\u2019s lived on Hilliard Road for fifty-four years and nobody\u2019s ever broken in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She locked her bedroom door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stood in the hallway and listened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I heard the suitcase unzip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then, very quietly, through the door, I heard my mother crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knocked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom? Can I come in?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNot right now, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom, please. You\u2019re scaring me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d she said through the door. Her voice was thick. \u201cI just need some time. Go home, Annie. Go home to Dave. I\u2019ll call you tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m not leaving you like this.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPlease,\u201d she said. \u201cPlease, honey. I\u2019m begging you. Just give me one night.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t go home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat in her living room. On her floral couch. Under the framed photo of my parents on their wedding day in 1965.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I called Dave. I told him what happened. He said he\u2019d keep dinner warm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I sat there for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Margaret gave me this one. Mine broke.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have a lot to catch up on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Twenty years. Maybe a little more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That evening, I called Margaret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom had given me the number before she left. Written on a Post-it note. In her neat Catholic-school handwriting. Margaret Feeney and a phone number with an 814 area code. Erie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d stuck it on my refrigerator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d brought it with me in my purse. I don\u2019t know why. Just in case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I dialed it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It rang four times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A man answered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHello?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Older. Gruff. Like a man who\u2019d been watching TV and didn\u2019t want to be interrupted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHi,\u201d I said. \u201cI\u2019m sorry to bother you. I\u2019m looking for Margaret Feeney. This is June Abernathy\u2019s daughter. My mother\u2019s been staying with her this week.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There was a pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWho?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret Feeney,\u201d I said again. \u201cShe\u2019s an old friend of my mother\u2019s. My mom gave me this number.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He went quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A long, strange quiet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then he said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMa\u2019am, Margaret hasn\u2019t lived here for eight years.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My stomach dropped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret Feeney,\u201d he said slowly. \u201cShe was my mother-in-law. She lived in this house. She passed away in 2018. My wife and I bought the house from the estate. We kept the phone number.\u201d He paused. \u201cI\u2019m sorry. Nobody\u2019s asked for her in a long time.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t speak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMa\u2019am?\u201d he said. \u201cAre you okay?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe died?\u201d I whispered. \u201cEight years ago?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMarch of 2018,\u201d he said. \u201cCancer. She\u2019s buried at Calvary Cemetery. Up on Peach Street.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd nobody\u2019s been staying there? This week? An eighty-year-old woman? June Abernathy?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNo, ma\u2019am,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s just me and my wife. Nobody\u2019s stayed here.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hung up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I checked the number again. On the Post-it note. In my mother\u2019s handwriting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was the same one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same one Mom had given me before leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat on my mother\u2019s couch with the Post-it note in my hand and stared at her bedroom door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Margaret Feeney had been dead for eight years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother had known her since first grade. Of course she knew.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019d lied to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For seven days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t knock again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t go home either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I fell asleep on the couch around one in the morning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next morning, I found her asleep in her armchair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the living room. The old blue recliner by the window that used to be Dad\u2019s. She must have come out of her bedroom sometime during the night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was wrapped in a quilt. Still wearing the gray cardigan. Her head was tipped to the side. Her mouth was a little open. She was breathing softly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the morning light, she looked even thinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stood over her and watched her sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I looked down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beside her, on the little side table, lay a train ticket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An Amtrak ticket. Printed. Folded in half.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I picked it up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ERIE, PA (ERI) to CLEVELAND, OH (CLE).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

PITTSBURGH, PA (PGH) to ERIE, PA (ERI).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dated Friday. Three days before her supposed return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She hadn\u2019t been in Erie on Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019d been in Pittsburgh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then she\u2019d traveled from Pittsburgh to Erie on Friday. And from Erie to Cleveland on Monday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What was in Pittsburgh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And underneath the ticket was a luggage tag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Leather. Brown. The kind that buckles around a suitcase handle. It had been unbuckled and laid flat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I turned it over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There was a little plastic window. And a card inside. Typed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not Margaret\u2019s name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not my mother\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SAMUEL J. REINER
1847 Beechwood Blvd.
Pittsburgh, PA 15217<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d never heard that name in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put the ticket and the luggage tag back exactly where I found them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked at my mother. Still sleeping.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I went down the hall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her bedroom door was open now. Just a crack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I pushed it open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The black suitcase was on the floor at the foot of her bed. Zipped closed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knelt down next to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d never in my life gone through my mother\u2019s things. Not her purse. Not her drawers. Not her mail. She\u2019d raised me better than that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I quietly opened the black suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inside were neatly folded clothes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother\u2019s clothes. Her nightgowns. Her underwear. Her two pairs of slacks. Her good blouse. Her toiletry bag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Folded perfectly. The way she folds everything. In thirds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But also something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A sweater. On top. Not hers. A man\u2019s sweater. Navy blue wool. Old. Soft. Worn at the elbows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It smelled like a man\u2019s aftershave. Old Spice, maybe. And something else. Something like a hospital.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Underneath the sweater, there was a sealed brown envelope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manila. Thick. Sealed with tape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing written on the front.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And next to it, an old-fashioned digital camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A little silver Canon. The kind everybody had in 2006. With a wrist strap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I switched it on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The screen lit up. A little battery icon blinked red in the corner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The battery was almost dead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I pressed the button to view the pictures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There were only four photographs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I opened the first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was taken in a hospital room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I could tell. The beige walls. The window with the vertical blinds. The IV pole. The rolling tray table. The little whiteboard on the wall where nurses write their names.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There was a man in the bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sixty, maybe. Thin. Very thin. Bald. Pale. Wearing a hospital gown. An IV in his arm. A tube under his nose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And sitting in a chair next to the bed, holding his hand, was my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was wearing the gray cardigan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They were both crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not small crying. Faces crumpled. Tears running down. My mother had her free hand pressed against her mouth. The man had his eyes squeezed shut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They were holding hands so tight their knuckles were white.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stared at it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I looked at the second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same hospital room. Same man. Same bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This time, he was holding something. In his lap. Spread out across the hospital blanket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A baby blanket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Small. Knitted. Yellow. Faded almost to cream. With a white border. And a little pattern of ducks around the edges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew that pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew it the second I saw it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother knits. She\u2019s knitted my whole life. Sweaters. Scarves. Mittens. Afghans for every couch in the family. Baby blankets for every grandchild.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every baby blanket she\u2019s ever made has the same pattern around the border.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Little ducks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She learned it from her grandmother in 1955. She told me once. She said it was the first thing she ever knitted. She said she\u2019d made one baby blanket with ducks when she was seventeen, a long time ago, and she\u2019d put a little of herself into every one since.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The man in the hospital bed was holding a yellow baby blanket with ducks around the border.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it was old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Very old.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Older than me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My hands were shaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I clicked to the third photograph.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was a family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Standing around the same hospital bed. The man in the middle. A woman next to him. His age. Gray hair. Kind face. A younger woman, thirty-something, with two little kids. A boy and a girl. Maybe six and eight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Standing at the end of the bed. In her navy coat. Looking small and tired and sad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the little girl had her arms around my mother\u2019s waist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hugging her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And my mother had her hand on the little girl\u2019s head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat back on my heels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked at the man in the hospital bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At his face. Thin and pale and bald.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At his eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dark. Deep-set. A little crooked when he smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I clicked to the fourth photograph.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was just him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The man in the hospital bed. Alone. Sitting up against the pillows. Looking straight at the camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was holding a piece of paper. A sheet of printer paper. Held up in front of his chest with both hands. Like a sign.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Written on it, in black marker, in big shaky letters:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HI ANNIE.
I\u2019M SAM.
I\u2019M YOUR BROTHER.
I\u2019D REALLY LIKE TO MEET YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ROOM 612
UPMC SHADYSIDE
PITTSBURGH<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(PLEASE HURRY)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The camera went dark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The battery died.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat on my mother\u2019s bedroom floor with a dead camera in my hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And I knew exactly where I needed to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I didn\u2019t grab my car keys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First, I went back into the living room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother was awake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was sitting up in the blue recliner. Wrapped in the quilt. Looking at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking at the camera in my hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her face crumpled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou found it,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWho is he?\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My voice was shaking. My whole body was shaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom. Who is Samuel Reiner? Who is the man in the hospital bed holding a sign that says he\u2019s my brother?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She closed her eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSit down, Annie,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cPlease. Sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI don\u2019t want to sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPlease,\u201d she said. \u201cI can\u2019t tell you if you\u2019re standing over me. I can\u2019t. I need you to sit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the floral couch. Across from her. With the dead camera in my lap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom looked at her hands for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis name was Michael,\u201d she said finally. \u201cWhen he was born. I named him Michael. After my father.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe was born on March 3, 1963,\u201d Mom said. \u201cAt St. Brigid\u2019s Home for Unwed Mothers in Erie, Pennsylvania. At four-fifteen in the morning. He weighed seven pounds, two ounces.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked up at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tears were running down her sunken cheeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI was seventeen,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis father was a boy named Danny Reilly,\u201d Mom said. \u201cFrom Plum Street. Three houses down from mine. We\u2019d known each other since we were little. We were going to get married.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She swallowed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe enlisted in the Navy in the summer of 1962,\u201d she said. \u201cHe was eighteen. He shipped out to Norfolk in August. He didn\u2019t know I was pregnant. I didn\u2019t know yet either.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat happened to him?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom closed her eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis ship was the USS Thresher,\u201d she said. \u201cA submarine. It sank in April of 1963. Off Cape Cod. During a test dive. A hundred and twenty-nine men. Nobody survived.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She opened her eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMichael was five weeks old,\u201d she said. \u201cDanny never knew he had a son.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put my hand over my mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy parents found out I was pregnant in October,\u201d Mom said. \u201cMy mother cried for three days. My father didn\u2019t speak to me for a month. Then they sent me away.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTo St. Brigid\u2019s.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTo St. Brigid\u2019s,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIn Erie. Run by the Sisters of Mercy. I told everybody on Plum Street I was going to stay with an aunt in Buffalo. That\u2019s what all the girls said. An aunt in Buffalo. Or an aunt in Pittsburgh. Everybody knew. Nobody said anything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She wiped her eyes with the corner of the quilt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat\u2019s where I met Margaret,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret Feeney was there too,\u201d Mom said. \u201cShe was sixteen. From Erie. She had a little girl in February. Three weeks before Michael.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret wasn\u2019t your childhood friend,\u201d I said slowly. \u201cFrom Plum Street.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNo,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI lied about that too. I met her at St. Brigid\u2019s. In the laundry room. We folded sheets together. Every day. For five months. She was the only one who knew. The only one in my whole life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe was my best friend, Annie,\u201d she said. \u201cWe wrote letters for fifty-five years. Every month. Until she died.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThey let me keep him for three days,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her voice was very quiet now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat was the rule. Three days. Then the adoptive family came. The sisters said it was better that way. A clean break. They said if you held them too long, you\u2019d never be able to let go.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was crying harder now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI held him for three days,\u201d she said. \u201cI fed him. I changed him. I sang to him. I wrapped him in the blanket I\u2019d knitted. Yellow. With ducks. I\u2019d been knitting it the whole time I was pregnant. In the laundry room. Margaret helped me with the border.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She put her hand over her mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd on the third day,\u201d she whispered, \u201cSister Agnes came and took him out of my arms. And I never saw him again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was crying now too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t know when I\u2019d started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe adoptive family was from Pittsburgh,\u201d Mom said. \u201cThat\u2019s all they told me. A good Catholic family. A doctor and his wife. They couldn\u2019t have children. They\u2019d been waiting four years.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cReiner,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cReiner,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI didn\u2019t know that until this spring.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI went home,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIn April. Two weeks after Danny\u2019s ship went down. My parents told everybody I\u2019d had a nice time in Buffalo. Nobody asked any questions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at the framed wedding photo on the wall. Her and Dad. 1965.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI met your father the next year,\u201d she said. \u201cAt a church dance. He was the kindest man I\u2019d ever met.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDid he know?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI told him before he proposed,\u201d she said. \u201cI thought he\u2019d leave. I sat in his car outside my parents\u2019 house and told him everything. Danny. St. Brigid\u2019s. Michael.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat did he say?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom smiled. Through her tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe said, June, that\u2019s the bravest thing I\u2019ve ever heard. And then he asked me to marry him. Right there. In the car.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd then you were born,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIn 1971. After two miscarriages. You were my miracle.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI never told you,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019m so sorry, Annie. I never told you. I thought about it a thousand times. When you were sixteen. When you got married. When you had Tyler. When Daddy died.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhy didn\u2019t you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom looked down at the quilt in her lap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBecause I was ashamed,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cBecause in 1963, girls like me were a disgrace. My mother told me so. The sisters told me so. The priest at St. Brigid\u2019s told me so every Sunday. You\u2019ve sinned. You\u2019ve shamed your family. The best thing you can do for that baby is disappear from his life forever.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She shook her head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI believed them,\u201d she said. \u201cFor sixty years. I believed that if anybody ever found out, they\u2019d look at me differently. You\u2019d look at me differently.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I whispered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t want to be the girl from St. Brigid\u2019s,\u201d she said. \u201cI wanted to be your mother. Just your mother. Who makes pie on Sundays.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSo what happened?\u201d I said. \u201cThis spring?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom took a shaky breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA letter came,\u201d she said. \u201cIn April. To my house. From a woman named Carol Reiner. In Pittsburgh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis wife.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis wife,\u201d Mom said. \u201cShe said her husband had been adopted. She said he\u2019d always wondered about his birth mother but never looked because he didn\u2019t want to hurt his adoptive parents. They\u2019re both gone now. His father died in 2011. His mother in 2020.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She swallowed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCarol said their daughter, Jenna, did one of those DNA tests last Christmas. Ancestry. For fun. And she got a match.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou did one too,\u201d she said. \u201cRemember? Three years ago. Tyler bought you one for your birthday.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I went cold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I remembered. I\u2019d spit in a tube and mailed it off and looked at my pie chart of ethnicities for about ten minutes. Irish, Polish, a little German. I\u2019d never logged in again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cJenna matched with you,\u201d Mom said. \u201cAs a close relative. A first cousin or a half-aunt. Carol said they couldn\u2019t figure out how. You weren\u2019t on any family tree they knew.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSo they found you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThey found Margaret first,\u201d Mom said. \u201cMargaret\u2019s daughter. The one Margaret gave up in 1963. She\u2019d done a DNA test too. She and Margaret found each other in 2014. Margaret told her everything. About St. Brigid\u2019s. About her friend June who had a baby boy three weeks after her.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She shook her head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret\u2019s daughter remembered my name,\u201d Mom said. \u201cJune Kowalski. My maiden name. Carol Reiner found me from that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCarol\u2019s letter said Sam had always known he was born at St. Brigid\u2019s,\u201d Mom said. \u201cHis adoptive mother told him when he was twelve. She gave him the only thing that came with him.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at the dead camera in my lap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe blanket,\u201d she said. \u201cYellow. With ducks. She kept it for sixty years. She gave it to him when she was dying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd the letter said something else,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her voice broke completely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt said Sam had leukemia.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stopped breathing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAcute myeloid leukemia,\u201d Mom said. \u201cDiagnosed in February. He\u2019d had chemotherapy. Two rounds. It didn\u2019t work. The doctors said the only chance was a bone marrow transplant. A stem cell transplant.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd they need a donor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThey need a match,\u201d Mom said. \u201cThey searched the registry. Be The Match. Millions of people. Nobody matched him well enough. He\u2019s mostly Irish and Polish. That\u2019s harder, they said. Fewer donors.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis best chance,\u201d she said, \u201cis a sibling.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The room went completely silent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked at the dead camera in my lap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HI ANNIE. I\u2019M SAM. I\u2019M YOUR BROTHER.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(PLEASE HURRY)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCarol\u2019s letter asked if I had any other children,\u201d Mom said. \u201cShe said even a half-sibling has a chance. One in four, maybe. The doctors said it was worth trying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said. \u201cThat was April.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s October.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI know,\u201d Mom whispered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSix months. You knew for six months. That I might be a match. For my brother. Who\u2019s dying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She put her face in her hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI couldn\u2019t,\u201d she said through her fingers. \u201cI couldn\u2019t tell you. I tried. A hundred times. Every Sunday at dinner. I\u2019d sit there and look at you across the pot roast and open my mouth. And nothing would come out.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was sobbing now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSixty-three years,\u201d she said. \u201cSixty-three years I kept it. I couldn\u2019t say the words. Annie, you have a brother. I gave him away. He\u2019s dying. He needs you. I couldn\u2019t. I just couldn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSo I wrote back to Carol,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIn May. I told her I had a daughter. I told her your name. I told her I\u2019d talk to you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd you didn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI wrote to Carol every week. I wrote to Sam. He wrote back. Long letters. About his life. About his parents. About his work. He\u2019s a high school chemistry teacher. Did you know that? Thirty-five years. At Taylor Allderdice in Pittsburgh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled. Through her tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe has my handwriting,\u201d she said. \u201cIsn\u2019t that strange? He writes his Js just like I do. Big loop at the bottom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd every week,\u201d Mom said, \u201cCarol would write and ask. Have you talked to Annie yet? Have you asked her? And I\u2019d write back and say not yet. Soon. I\u2019m trying.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd I stopped eating,\u201d she said quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stared at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI couldn\u2019t,\u201d she said. \u201cEvery time I sat down to eat, I thought about him. In a hospital bed. In Pittsburgh. Waiting. While I sat in my kitchen with my pot roast. Too much of a coward to tell my daughter.\u201d She shook her head. \u201cI couldn\u2019t swallow. It was like something was stuck in my throat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSince May?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat\u2019s why the sweaters,\u201d I said slowly. \u201cThe big cardigans. In the summer. That\u2019s why you\u2019ve been wearing Dad\u2019s old sweaters.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t want you to notice,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI\u2019ve lost forty-one pounds since May, Annie. I hid it under Daddy\u2019s sweaters.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put my hand over my mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Forty-one pounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every Sunday. Every single Sunday since May. I\u2019d sat across the table from my mother at Sunday dinner. I\u2019d watched her cut the pie into eight perfect slices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d never once watched her eat it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd then in September,\u201d Mom said, \u201cCarol called. On the phone. For the first time. She said Sam was getting worse. She said the doctors at UPMC Shadyside were saying weeks, maybe. Not months. She said if there was any chance at all, they needed to test you now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She took a breath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd she said Sam had asked for something,\u201d Mom said. \u201cBefore it was too late.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe asked to meet me,\u201d she said. \u201cHis birth mother. Just once. To say hello. And thank you. And goodbye.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSo I told you I was going to visit Margaret,\u201d Mom said. \u201cBecause she was the only one who ever knew. I thought if I said her name, it would give me courage. Like she was coming with me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She almost smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI gave you her old phone number,\u201d she said. \u201cI didn\u2019t think you\u2019d call. I\u2019m sorry. That was cruel.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhere did you go, Mom? Really?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI took the train to Erie,\u201d Mom said. \u201cOn Monday. Like I told you. I went to St. Brigid\u2019s first. It\u2019s not a home anymore. It\u2019s apartments now. Senior apartments. I stood outside on the sidewalk for an hour.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She closed her eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThen I went to Calvary Cemetery,\u201d she said. \u201cTo Margaret\u2019s grave. I sat there all afternoon. I told her I was going to meet him. I told her I was scared.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She opened her eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThen I took the bus to Pittsburgh,\u201d she said. \u201cThat night. And Carol picked me up at the station.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI met him on Tuesday,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIn Room 612. At eleven in the morning.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was crying again. Quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI walked in the door,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd he was sitting up in bed. And he looked at me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She put her hand over her heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd he said, Hi, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I couldn\u2019t speak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSixty-three years,\u201d Mom whispered. \u201cSixty-three years since Sister Agnes took him out of my arms. And he looked at me and said Hi, Mom. Like he\u2019d been waiting his whole life to say it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat did you say?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cNothing,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI couldn\u2019t. I just sat down. And held his hand. And we both cried for an hour.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at the dead camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCarol took that picture,\u201d she said. \u201cThe first one. I didn\u2019t know she was taking it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI stayed six days,\u201d Mom said. \u201cAt Carol\u2019s house. In their guest room. I sat with him every day. From eight in the morning until the nurses made me leave at nine at night. I slept in the chair next to his bed two nights.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou didn\u2019t eat,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI couldn\u2019t,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI was so happy, Annie. And so sad. All at the same time. I\u2019d look at him and think, I have my son back. And I\u2019m going to lose him again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She swallowed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe told me everything,\u201d she said. \u201cHis whole life. His parents. Good people. Dr. and Mrs. Reiner. He said they loved him so much. He said he never once felt unwanted.\u201d Her voice cracked. \u201cHe said his mother used to tell him, every night when he was little, Somebody loved you very much before we ever met you. She knitted you a blanket with ducks.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She put her face in her hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHis mother,\u201d she said through her fingers. \u201cHis adoptive mother. Told him every night that I loved him. For sixty years. I never knew.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe showed me the blanket,\u201d Mom said. \u201cOn Wednesday. Carol brought it from home. It was in a box. Wrapped in tissue paper. He\u2019d kept it in his closet his whole life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked up at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe ducks were still there,\u201d she said. \u201cEvery one. Margaret helped me with them. In the laundry room. Fifty-five years ago. Every stitch.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOn Thursday, he asked about you,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe asked what you were like,\u201d she said. \u201cI told him everything. That you\u2019re a dental hygienist. That you\u2019re married to a good man named Dave. That you have two children. That you call me every night. That you\u2019re stubborn and bossy and kind and you never let me get away with anything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She almost laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe said, She sounds like me,\u201d Mom said. \u201cHe said Carol says he\u2019s stubborn and bossy too.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd then?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd then he asked if he could meet you,\u201d Mom said quietly. \u201cNot for the transplant. Not just for that. He said even if you weren\u2019t a match. Even if you didn\u2019t want to be tested. He said he\u2019d just like to meet his sister. Once. Before.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSo on Friday, I left,\u201d Mom said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou took the train from Pittsburgh to Erie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI was going to come straight home and tell you,\u201d she said. \u201cFriday night. I bought the ticket. I had it all planned out what I was going to say.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBut you didn\u2019t come home Friday.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI got as far as Erie,\u201d Mom said. \u201cAnd I got scared. I couldn\u2019t get on the train to Cleveland. I just couldn\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI stayed in a motel in Erie for three nights,\u201d she said. \u201cNear the station. The Red Roof Inn. I sat in that room and tried to figure out how to say it. I wrote it out on the motel notepad. Forty times. Every version. None of them sounded right.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat\u2019s why you didn\u2019t call,\u201d I said. \u201cThursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. You just texted.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI couldn\u2019t hear your voice,\u201d Mom said. \u201cIf I heard your voice, I\u2019d have told you on the phone. And I didn\u2019t want you to find out on the phone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd the suitcase?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom looked down the hall. Toward her bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy blue bag broke,\u201d she said. \u201cOn Thursday. In Sam\u2019s room. The zipper split. Carol gave me one of theirs. Sam\u2019s. He used to take it to science teacher conferences.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled faintly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSam put the camera in it,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd the envelope. Before I left. He said, Give these to Annie. If you can\u2019t find the words, maybe these will help.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I picked up the brown envelope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was still sealed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked at my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I opened it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inside were two things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first was a medical kit. A small cardboard box. With a printed label.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

UPMC HILLMAN CANCER CENTER
HLA TYPING \u2014 SIBLING DONOR TEST KIT
Patient: SAMUEL J. REINER
Potential donor: ANNE ABERNATHY COLE<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inside were four long cotton swabs. In sealed plastic tubes. And an instruction sheet. And a prepaid FedEx envelope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Swab inside of both cheeks for 30 seconds each. Return within 24 hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The second thing was a letter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Handwritten. On lined notebook paper. In blue ink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Js had big loops at the bottom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dear Annie,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sorry to meet you this way. In a letter. In a suitcase. Through Mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s what I\u2019ve been calling her this week. Mom. I hope that\u2019s okay. I know she\u2019s your mom. I know you\u2019ve had her your whole life, and I\u2019ve had her for six days. But I\u2019ve had a mom my whole life too, and she always told me that somewhere out there was another one who loved me first. So now I have two. I\u2019m a lucky man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t know how much Mom\u2019s told you. Probably not much. She\u2019s been trying to tell you since April. She says she can\u2019t find the words. I understand. I\u2019ve been trying to find them for sixty-three years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are the facts. I\u2019m sixty-three. I teach high school chemistry in Pittsburgh. I\u2019ve been married to Carol for thirty-eight years. We have a daughter, Jenna, and two grandkids, Lucy and Max. I like the Steelers and the Pirates and bad science fiction movies. I\u2019m bald now from the chemo, but I used to have dark curly hair. Mom says you do too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have leukemia. AML. The doctors say I need a stem cell transplant. They\u2019ve searched the whole national registry. No good match. My best chance is a sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re the only sibling I have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that\u2019s a lot to put on a stranger. You don\u2019t owe me anything. You didn\u2019t know I existed a week ago. If you don\u2019t want to do the test, I understand completely. Please don\u2019t feel guilty. Please don\u2019t let Mom feel guilty. She\u2019s carried enough guilt for one lifetime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But here\u2019s the thing I really wanted to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you\u2019re not a match. Even if you don\u2019t want to be tested. I\u2019d still like to meet you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just once. Just to say hello. Just to see my sister\u2019s face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I always wanted a sister. When I was little, I used to ask my mother for one every Christmas. She\u2019d laugh and say, \u201cMaybe someday, Sammy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Turns out she was right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Room 612. UPMC Shadyside. I\u2019m not going anywhere. Well. Not yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your brother,
Sam<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P.S. The camera has four pictures. I asked Carol to take the last one. I figured if Mom couldn\u2019t say it, I would.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put the letter down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked at my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was sitting in Dad\u2019s blue recliner. Wrapped in the quilt. Forty-one pounds lighter than she was in May. Her sunken face wet with tears.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m sorry, Annie,\u201d she whispered. \u201cI\u2019m so sorry. For lying to you. For Margaret. For sixty-three years. For not being brave enough to\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I got up off the couch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knelt down in front of the recliner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put my arms around my mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was so small. I could feel every bone in her back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said into her hair. \u201cStop. Stop apologizing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI gave him away,\u201d she sobbed. \u201cI gave him away and I never told anybody and now he\u2019s dying and\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou were seventeen,\u201d I said. \u201cYou were seventeen and scared and your boyfriend was dead at the bottom of the ocean and everybody told you that you were a sinner. You did what they told you. You knitted him a blanket. You held him for three days. You loved him.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I pulled back. I held her face in both my hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou loved him so much,\u201d I said, \u201cthat his mother told him about you every night for sixty years. That\u2019s not something to be ashamed of, Mom. That\u2019s the most beautiful thing I\u2019ve ever heard.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And for the first time in five months, something in her face let go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She cried. Really cried. In my arms. In Dad\u2019s recliner. Sixty-three years of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I held her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I stood up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I picked up the test kit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I went into her bathroom. I washed my hands. I opened the first sealed tube.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I swabbed the inside of my left cheek for thirty seconds. Then my right. Then the second swab. Then the third. Then the fourth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sealed them in the plastic tubes. I put them in the FedEx envelope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I came back out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom was watching me from the recliner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnnie,\u201d she whispered. \u201cYou don\u2019t have to\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYes, I do,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I grabbed my car keys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cGet your coat, Mom,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She stared at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhere are we going?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPittsburgh,\u201d I said. \u201cRoom 612. I want to meet my brother.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We stopped at the FedEx on Detroit Road on the way. I overnighted the swabs to UPMC Hillman. Priority. Seven-dollar extra for Saturday delivery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then I called Dave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m driving Mom to Pittsburgh,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPittsburgh? What\u2019s in Pittsburgh?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked over at my mother. In the passenger seat. Wrapped in her navy coat. Holding the yellow baby blanket in her lap. She\u2019d taken it out of the black suitcase. Sam had sent it home with her. He wanted me to see it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy brother,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dave was quiet for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ll pack a bag,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019ll meet you there tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s two hours and fifteen minutes from Rocky River to Pittsburgh. I-80 to I-76. Through Youngstown. Into the hills of western Pennsylvania.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom didn\u2019t talk much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

About an hour in, she said, \u201cAnnie.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYeah, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m hungry,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked over at her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was looking out the window. At the trees. At the hills. The leaves were turning. Red and gold and orange.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI haven\u2019t been hungry since May,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cI\u2019m hungry.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I pulled off at the next exit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There was a Cracker Barrel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bought her chicken and dumplings and mashed potatoes and biscuits. And a slice of apple pie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She ate all of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every bite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She cried the whole time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We got to UPMC Shadyside at four-fifteen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Room 612.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom walked in first. Slowly. With the yellow blanket.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I stood in the doorway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was sitting up in bed. Bald. Pale. Thin. An IV in his arm. A tube under his nose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Carol was in the chair next to him. She stood up when she saw us. Her hand went to her mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And Sam looked past Mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can\u2019t describe it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve tried. Since then. To Dave. To my kids. To my friends at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I can\u2019t describe what it\u2019s like to look at a stranger\u2019s face and see your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His eyes were mine. Dark. Deep-set. A little crooked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His nose was mine. His chin. The way his mouth turned down at the corners before he smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He looked at me for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then he smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crooked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHi, Annie,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I walked across the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t remember doing it. I just remember being in the doorway, and then being next to the bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t know what to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d driven two hours and fifteen minutes and I didn\u2019t know what to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So I said the only thing I could think of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI always wanted a brother.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sam laughed. Then he started crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI asked for a sister every Christmas,\u201d he said. \u201cEvery single year. For sixty-three years.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI know,\u201d I said. \u201cI read your letter.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He held out his hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The one without the IV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I took it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His hand was cold and thin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was the same shape as mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Carol took a picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I didn\u2019t see her do it. She told me later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s on my refrigerator now. Me and Sam. In Room 612. Holding hands. Both crying. Both smiling the same crooked smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And behind us, in the chair by the window, our mother. In her navy coat. Holding a yellow baby blanket with ducks around the edges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Watching both of her children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For the first time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the same room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The test results came back nine days later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. Patel called me at work. I was cleaning a patient\u2019s teeth. I had to take my gloves off and step into the hallway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMrs. Cole,\u201d she said. \u201cI have your HLA typing results.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I leaned against the wall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThere\u2019s about a twenty-five percent chance a full sibling is a perfect match,\u201d Dr. Patel said. \u201cFor a half-sibling, it\u2019s lower. Much lower. We don\u2019t usually see it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI understand,\u201d I said. My voice was shaking. \u201cI\u2019m not a match. That\u2019s okay. I knew it was a long shot\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMrs. Cole,\u201d Dr. Patel said. \u201cYou\u2019re a ten out of ten.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I slid down the wall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All the way to the floor. In the hallway of Lakewood Family Dentistry. In my scrubs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA ten out of ten,\u201d I whispered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA perfect match,\u201d Dr. Patel said. \u201cEvery single marker. I\u2019ve been doing this for nineteen years. I\u2019ve seen it with half-siblings maybe twice.\u201d She paused. \u201cYour brother is a very lucky man.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The transplant was on December twelfth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I spent two days at Hillman Cancer Center getting injections to boost my stem cells. Then four hours hooked up to a machine that drew out my blood, separated the stem cells, and put the rest back in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It didn\u2019t hurt much. My bones ached. I was tired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom sat next to me the whole time. Knitting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A baby blanket. Yellow. With ducks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWho\u2019s that for?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cLucy\u2019s going to have a baby,\u201d she said. \u201cIn June. Sam\u2019s granddaughter. My great-granddaughter.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She kept knitting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMargaret would want me to do the ducks,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They gave Sam my stem cells the next morning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They come in a bag. Like a blood transfusion. Dark red. They hung it on an IV pole and dripped it into his chest catheter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It took an hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I sat on one side of his bed. Mom sat on the other. Carol stood at the window.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sam watched the bag drip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat\u2019s you,\u201d he said to me. \u201cThat\u2019s actually you. Going into me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThat\u2019s me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSixty-three years,\u201d he said. \u201cSixty-three years I didn\u2019t know you existed. And now part of you is going to be inside me for the rest of my life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHowever long that is,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHowever long that is,\u201d he agreed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He reached over and took my hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He reached over with the other hand and took Mom\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we sat there, the three of us, holding hands, watching the bag drip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s been ten months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sam\u2019s in remission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His blood type changed. Did you know that happens? After a stem cell transplant? He was O positive. Now he\u2019s A positive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ve got your blood,\u201d he told me on the phone in March. \u201cLiterally. My doctor says I\u2019m basically half Annie now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cGod help you,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His hair grew back in April.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dark. Curly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom\u2019s gained back thirty-two of the forty-one pounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s baking again. Cinnamon rolls every Saturday. Apple pie every Sunday. Banana bread whenever a banana gets a brown spot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She wears her own cardigans again. The ones that fit. Not Dad\u2019s old sweaters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She hasn\u2019t missed a Sunday dinner since November.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now, every other Sunday, there are more chairs at the table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sam and Carol drive up from Pittsburgh. Two hours and fifteen minutes. They come for Sunday dinner. Pot roast or roast chicken or meatloaf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes Jenna comes too. With Lucy and Max. Lucy\u2019s baby was born in June. A boy. They named him Daniel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After Danny Reilly. The boy from Plum Street who went down with the Thresher in 1963 and never knew he had a son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom held him at the christening. In the yellow blanket with the ducks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She cried so hard Father Mike had to wait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dave and Sam watch the Steelers-Browns game together. They yell at each other. They\u2019re both terrible losers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tyler and Jenna figured out they\u2019re both into the same podcast about true crime. They text constantly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grace, my daughter, the nursing student, asked Sam if she could interview him for a paper. About being a stem cell recipient. She got an A.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And Mom sits at the head of the table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In her own cardigan. Pink. With pockets full of tissues and butterscotch candies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With both of her children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And she cuts the pie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten slices now. Not eight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She always gives Sam the biggest one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYou were the first,\u201d she says. \u201cFirst one gets the biggest slice.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve had fifty-four years of the biggest slice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Last Sunday, after dinner, after the pie, after Dave and Sam went into the living room to yell at the football game, Mom and I washed dishes together at her kitchen sink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was washing. I was drying. Like always.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnnie,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYeah, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cDo you know what I thought about? In the motel? In Erie? For those three nights?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I shook my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI thought about Sister Agnes,\u201d Mom said. \u201cTaking him out of my arms. On the third day. And I thought about what she said to me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhat did she say?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom stopped washing. She held a plate under the running water.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe said, June, the kindest thing you can do for this boy is let him go and never look back. Pretend he never happened. It\u2019s better for everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She turned off the water.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI believed her for sixty-three years,\u201d Mom said. \u201cI pretended he never happened. I never looked back. Not once. Not even when I wanted to so badly I couldn\u2019t breathe.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd it wasn\u2019t better for everyone,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cIt was worse. For me. For him. For you. For all of us.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She picked up a dish towel. She dried her hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSecrets don\u2019t protect anybody, Annie,\u201d she said. \u201cThey just make everybody lonely.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I put the plate I was drying in the cupboard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I looked out the kitchen window. At the backyard. At Dad\u2019s old maple tree. At the bird feeder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMom,\u201d I said. \u201cCan I ask you something?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhy Margaret?\u201d I said. \u201cOf all the lies you could have told me. Why did you say you were visiting Margaret?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom was quiet for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBecause she was the only one who was there,\u201d she said finally. \u201cIn the laundry room at St. Brigid\u2019s. Folding sheets. Knitting ducks. Crying together every night.\u201d She swallowed. \u201cShe was the only person in my whole life who knew both of my children existed.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAnd I thought, if I said her name,\u201d Mom said, \u201cif I told you I was going to see Margaret, it would be the truth. In a way. Because I was going to see the only other person she ever knew about.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She smiled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI wanted her to come with me,\u201d Mom said. \u201cEven though she was gone. I wanted my best friend there when I finally met my son.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I keep the black suitcase in my closet now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sam told me to keep it. He said he\u2019s not going to any more science teacher conferences. He retired in June. He says he wants to spend the time he has left getting to know his family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The leather luggage tag is still on the handle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SAMUEL J. REINER.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But underneath, Mom tied something else to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A little pink ribbon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same pink ribbon from her blue bag. The one that broke. In Room 612. On the day she found her son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She said she wanted it on the suitcase that brought her home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in the bottom of the suitcase, wrapped in tissue paper, is the little silver Canon camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I charged the battery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are more than four pictures on it now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s Sam\u2019s first Sunday dinner. Sam and Dave yelling at the TV. Sam holding baby Daniel in the yellow blanket. Sam and me at the Hillman Cancer Center on transplant day, both bald-headed in solidarity, because I shaved my head the night before. Mom laughing so hard she had to sit down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I still look at the first four sometimes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mom and Sam in Room 612. Holding hands. Crying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The yellow blanket with ducks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The family around the bed. A little girl hugging my mother\u2019s waist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the last one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HI ANNIE. I\u2019M SAM. I\u2019M YOUR BROTHER. I\u2019D REALLY LIKE TO MEET YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(PLEASE HURRY)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I did hurry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It took me two hours and fifteen minutes and a stop at Cracker Barrel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It took my mother sixty-three years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But we both got there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People ask me sometimes how I feel about it. About my mother lying to me. About keeping a brother secret for my entire life. About Margaret. About the black suitcase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They expect me to be angry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I tell them the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My mother was seventeen years old. Her boyfriend was dead at the bottom of the Atlantic. Everybody she knew told her she was a disgrace. They took her baby out of her arms on the third day and told her to pretend he never existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So she did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For sixty-three years, she carried it alone. Under her sweaters. Under her pie crusts. Under her Sunday dinners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when she finally found him again, and he needed her, she was so scared she stopped eating for five months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She lost forty-one pounds hiding the truth from me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then a man she\u2019d held for three days in 1963 put a camera in a borrowed suitcase and said, If you can\u2019t find the words, maybe these will help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She couldn\u2019t find the words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So her son found them for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

HI ANNIE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019M SAM.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019M YOUR BROTHER.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s all it took.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Four photographs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And a yellow blanket with ducks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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